MENding UK operates under the umbrella of SHE UK

Jacqui Lewis
Jacqui Lewis

A bit about your work experience and skills: Prior to being diagnosed with post traumatic stress and dissociation following the death of my mother I had worked full time in catering management. I did three years at college in Gloucester training in Hotel Catering and Institutional Management which included accountancy and general administration. My first post was at the campus of the American University of Evansville in the UK at Harlaxton Manor. I moved on to work in the family business The Red House in the vale of Belvoir until the birth of my children. Following my breakdown I did my basic Counselling Skills Certificates and a Certificate in Art Therapy Skills.

Hobbies/Interests: In enjoy reading, writing, arts and crafts and spending time with my granddaughter and gardening.

How do you see your role within MENding UK? I am currently a trustee and volunteer. I see myself as a catalyst bringing different people together to create change. I aim to offer whatever help and support I can to staff – paid and unpaid and to our members.

Why did you get involved: Having memories of my own childhood abuse resurface after the death of my mother in 1994 and a complete breakdown in my ability to operate as an adult in the here and now, I slowly began to learn from personal experience the impact sexual abuse had had on my whole life. I want to do something to change things; to stop abuse happening; to make people realise how damaging it is; to reach out to other survivors.

Jenny Lewis
Jenny Lewis (Acting Chair)

A bit about your work experience and skills: I come from a background of creative pursuits and a sales & customer focussed approach to things within my working ethic. I have done a variety of work from market research, sales and customer service to assistant arts facilitator on an over 50s singing group for the local community.

Hobbies/Interests:  My hobbies are singing, writing short stories, catching the latest films, yoga and chocolate testing.

How do you see your role within MENding UK? My current role  is as the acting Chair. I want to give whatever I can to help the charity build and develop, as it is so important to give survivors the space and opportunity to heal from the devastating affects of abuse, so they can get the life they deserve and continue to blossom.

Why did you get involved: That’s simple. I want to help survivors recover from the devastating effects of sexual abuse, and services for male victims are seriously lacking. I want to help make that change.

Jill Alexander
Jill Alexander

A bit about your work experience and skills: My main working life was as a machinist in a shoe factory. I’ve worked with survivors of childhood sexual abuse for over 10 years, and became a fully qualified therapist some years ago so that I could deliver long term counselling for survivors.

Hobbies/Interests: My interests are my family and friends, music and films, and I enjoy spending time in the countryside. I’m all for lots of fun and laughter.

How do you see your role within MENding UK? My role is as a trustee, advising on how to work with survivors and making sure we stay in touch with the reasons we began the charity in the first place.

Why did you get involved: I am a survivor myself and understand the turmoil survivors face. When I felt I had completed my own personal journey I felt drawn to supporting and helping other people along their paths to recovery.


 Russell Jays

A bit about your work experience and skills: My background and main employment is Data Processing and IT Management – the two main areas I’ve worked in are Manufacturing and Telecoms.

I also work part time for a charity where I started as a volunteer. Apart from looking after the computer systems, I started a project to promote fitness and motor skills for Adults with learning disabilities and mentoring long term unemployed individuals. I’ve been co-ordinator for an LGBT Youth group since May 2014 too, so my weeks are pretty full!

Hobbies/Interests: I’m learning to play the piano.  I’m a bit geeky about steam trains and railways. I love 80’s music and old sci-fi.   I’ve become a lover of cruise holidays!!

How do you see your role within MENding UK? As a Trustee I hope to bring my commercial and voluntary sector experience along with a sense of fair play and balance.

While I share the passion of our volunteers and workers, I hope that being slightly removed from the day-to-day activities can help give a different perspective to strategic and financial matters.

Why did you get involved: Having worked with some of the MENding team before, I was interested to find out more about the organisation.  Having had some experiences of abuse, what we do struck a note with me and I’m happy to be of some small help to support the brilliant work the team do.


Kate Drake

A bit about your work experience and skills: My current role is as a Senior Manager in the Commercial Finance team at Boots where I have been part of the team since June 2012. My career started at EY (formerly Ernst & Young) which I joined after graduating from the University of Leeds with a bachelor’s degree in Management Studies. Whilst working at EY in the Transaction Services division on financial due diligence assignments for acquisition and sale of businesses, I studied for my professional accountancy qualification and became a Member of the Institute of Chartered Accountants of Scotland in 2008. Following four and a half years at EY, I joined the finance team of Experian working as a Finance Planning and Analysis Manager for two years before I joined the team at Boots. My current role includes supporting decision making, delivery of sales and profit in the retail business and working with my finance counterparts at businesses that supply Boots.

Hobbies/interests: I love to travel to new places and was lucky enough in 2009 to spend six months travelling around Asia, Australia and New Zealand and many more places since then. I enjoy reading, spending time with friends and family, and also have a passion for tea and all things related (my teapot collection is getting a bit out of control!). I also like to cook with speciality being Sunday roast. 

How do you see your role within MENding UK? I see my role as bringing financial expertise to support the charity in financial planning, governance and reporting. I also bring an objective view and an ability to think strategically about the future development of the charity and commercially about how we can deliver the best service for the most people on the funds available.

Why did you get involved? I heard about and got involved with SHE (and subsequently, MENding) through the Boots Charitable Trust and have always got involved in charity activity throughout my career. SHE UK has such a fundamentally positive impact on the lives of the survivors it supports and hearing about all of the great things the charity already does and the ambitious plans to develop for the future, including developing services specifically for male victims, inspired me to want to use the skills I have developed in my career to support that work in the best way I can.